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David K. Taylor | BuildSmart<\/a> | June 10,2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This post is a continuation of the 10 most horrible, terrible, no good, \u201cbang your head against the door\u201d mistakes<\/a> that I have seen lawyers make before, during and after mediations in which I was the mediator. As stated in previous posts, it takes more than throwing together a mediation statement at the last second and showing up at the mediation. Doing it right requires the same kind of due diligence and work that goes into preparing for a key deposition or even trial. Great \u201cmediation\u201d lawyering is essential and is the best way to get to an acceptable deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No. 9: Not Having a Pre-mediation Call With the Other Lawyer and the Mediator<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, you have done your research and feel comfortable about the jointly selected mediator. You have an agreed date for mediation. Do you then just send in the confidential mediation statement and show up on the date? No.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Set up a call with the mediator (many good mediators insist) and opposing counsel and talk through the many issues that can derail a mediation. Consider the following, all of which you could address in a pre-mediation counsel conference call with the mediator.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you need information or documents from the other side?<\/strong> It can infuriate mediators when, in the middle of a mediation, they hear one side use an excuse that it does not have some information (or a document) necessary to make a decision and the other side does not have immediate access to such documents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you agree to exchange all or some parts of the mediation statement?<\/strong> Discuss with opposing counsel what you plan to do and what you expect from the opposition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is also crucial to know who will attend.<\/strong> If the party representatives hate each other or you know that the other representative is not<\/em> the decision-maker and may be covering himself because he screwed up the deal, a pre-mediation call can be essential. If insurance is involved, will the insurance adjuster (where the money will be coming from) be present? It is a bad way to start off a mediation when the lawyer shows up without the insured (who may not care because he\u2019s not paying for the defense) or without the adjuster (who has 235 other cases) but whom the lawyer promises will be \u201cavailable by phone\u201d on the West Coast (but then disappears late in the afternoon when that side needs some additional authority to get the deal done).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The lesson is that the more you learn from a pre-mediation call with the mediator and counsel, the more time and attention you can devote to the real factual and legal issues in dispute during the actual mediation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To be clear, great mediation advocacy is not the<\/em> most important element in getting a deal done, but it can be a major factor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

David K. Taylor | BuildSmart | June 10,2019 This post is a continuation of the 10 most horrible, terrible, no good, \u201cbang your head against the door\u201d mistakes that I have seen lawyers make before, during and after mediations in which I was the mediator. As stated in previous posts, it takes more than throwing… Continue reading No. 9 of the Top 10 Horrible, Terrible, No Good Mistakes Lawyers Make in Mediations<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[13],"tags":[9895,79],"class_list":["post-896040","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mediation","tag-advise-consult","tag-mediation-2","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"yoast_head":"\nNo. 9 of the Top 10 Horrible, Terrible, No Good Mistakes Lawyers Make in Mediations - 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